Response to Anonymous...

Thank you so much for your comment.  While I obviously wouldn't dream of trying to offer any advice which I am neither qualified or capable of giving, I can commiserate with you on feeling like you're stuck in a place where you are no longer happy.  That's actually my current situation which I am taking steps to fix.  I am fortunate in that I don't have anyone else to consider in my plans as they will affect no one other than myself.  Still, I wish you luck and happiness whatever you eventually decide to do.  Everyone deserves to be happy.  Even me.  Even you.